Toxic Friends favorrrr
[...]« Three kinds of friends are helpful, three kinds of friends are harmful. The tools: a straight friend, a faithful, a cult. The ominous: a false friend, a mute, a talker. " And, however much they idealize friendship as a source of all kinds benefits, there is unquestionably harmful have on friends whom you have the opposite effect than expected. At a minimum, complicate our lives.
[...] The friendship has to be selfless, but mutual ; delivered, but not unequal . Having a friend is a guarantee of support in difficult times, but at the same time an unavoidable commitment on the reverse. Friends toxic lack this sense of correspondence. The same forces us to put aside our obligations to serve Cloth tears in a difficult time dodging the package when we ask for your help. The telling us their secrets charging with the heavy responsibility of confidentiality, reports to the four winds confidences which we naively depositary. The borrower again and again tightly closed fist when the application takes the opposite direction.
Why, despite all that, many friends kept under long (sometimes lifelong) relationship with the parasite that complicated existence? Hard to say. In most cases there is a kind of moral imperative under which we act repugnant disloyalty. [...] Breaking the link would be an act of treason, more to ourselves than another.
Friendship is a scarce resource that must be cared for with generosity and patience, tolerance comprensióny . For harmful it can be an old friend, probably have shared with him life's special moments. [...] Compromise on its shortcomings, forgive them their mistakes, forget the damage caused because we get rid of them would be a kind of failure. The question is how point worth dragging that burden in exchange for retaining the friendship of a selfish cad .????
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